Do you know your partner’s G-spot?
Many people are so comfortable with knowing which specific areas of their partners’ bodies drive them wild that monotony and complacency might set in.
The truth is, there are a lot of areas in the human body which when stimulated is a guaranteed way to ignite the flames of passion.
Two sex experts help us engage our partners’ body with a fresh and different approach.
Jade Zwane, a sex expert and author, points out the many other sensitive spots on the male anatomy, while Mofenyi Malepe, author of The Bad Sex Bet, looks at the female anatomy and its hidden sex firecrackers.
“The body is more difficult than maths, but if you take your time to learn your partner’s reaction or their body temperature when you touch certain parts of their bodies we mostly consider not erogenous, then you reign supreme over their bodies, and in that way you know how to get them in the pleasure mode,” Malepe says.
MEN’S HOT SPOTS
When it comes to men, Zwane says you should be adventurers but proceed with caution.
She lists the top five areas that could drive any man wild:
“For some people, the neck is ticklish and squeamish, but the majority of people find it stimulating. Move your mouth along the length of your partner’s neck while in the heat of passion, and magic will happen.
Most people tend to think that only women like their nipples caressed. Nipples are very sensitive, be it for men or for women, so sucking on your man’s nipples will drive him wild.
That is probably the most sensitive part of any man. Having their scrotum caressed with the tongue is probably going to either tickle or send their hormones into a tailspin and make them want to ravage you.
There is something about the many nerve endings around the ear that if stimulated, can cause arousal. There is something about the warmth of the mouth on the ear that drives men wild.
Again, this can either be very ticklish or totally stimulating. Sucking on your man’s toes can be a very sensual experience if done right. Do not bite or chew, just suck, occasionally blowing some air to drive him crazier.
WOMEN’S HOT SPOTS
When it comes to women, Malepe says every technique he is about to reveal requires one to take their time. He lists the four sensitive areas on women as:
For some reason, moving your mouth around the calf muscles is a very sensual experience for most women. Do not lick, just move your mouth in a kissing motion.
Gorge behind the knee
In this area, you are allowed to lick away. It is almost guaranteed to turn on any woman.
Pelvic bone area
During foreplay, go down and focus mainly on the pelvic bone, gentle kissing and licking it as you go along. This bone is very sensitive for most women.
This is the space between the thighs that is very sensitive because it is mostly hidden away. Work your tongue around that area, and the coldness of the saliva is sure to jump-start that area into a shaking orgasm.